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I know it’s coming, but not exactly when.  Meanwhile I have no choice but to sit and wait until DW looks at her watch one last time, and gets up from her chair with the words ‘OK Mister, let’s get you spanked’. No choice because my arms are crossed behind my back with forearms parallel […]

Like so many of my past and all too infrequent posts, this one has sculled around in the background of my thoughts for quite some time, re-surfacing at intervals with what occasionally amount to realisations about myself and my ‘need’ for submission to domestic discipline spankings – and its origins.  Nothing other than good fortune […]

My Disciplinary Agreement with DW provides for both Preventative or Remedial Domestic Discipline. The occasions for Remedial Discipline are readily apparent – if our Agreement defines my behaviour as unacceptable, a dose inevitably follows.  DW’s assessment of the seriousness and frequency of the infringement decides its severity.  Over the years, I’ve gained an idea of […]

Medical opinion seems to be that ICE, as in Ice, Compression and Elevation are the recommended treatments for a contusion – being  ‘an injury to a muscle and tissues caused by a blow from a blunt object, typically resulting in a bruise’.  That sounds like a spanking to me. As it’s clearly my intent that […]

There really is not much that I enjoy more than bringing DW to a loud, mind-blowing orgasm while she is sitting on my face. On the most recent occasion DW took the initiative once our foreplay had reached the stage that I was ever so gently fingering her generously moist clit and it was clear […]

Just of late DW’s primary focus has been on achieving a long lasting effect from each of my disciplinary spankings and for this outcome, it is clear that DW prefers the use of our ‘nice’ solid oak Spencer Paddle.  Once I am bent over and in position, my feelings of trepidation and foreboding are all […]

The spanking in our relationship is not always confined to domestic discipline nor to my butt.  Although I’m always the one on the receiving end of disciplinary spankings, there are occasions when we spank each other simply for fun or eroticism, although we find the two are pretty closely intertwined.  One of those occasions is […]

It’s not typical for DW to give prior indication of the duration and severity of a punishment she plans to apply for an infringement, but there have been occasions when she’s indulged in some degree of “negotiation”.  Unfortunately it’s rarely I’m left with the feeling, especially in my butt, that I’ve then only received the […]

I awaken in the early hours of the morning with a growing erection to find that DW is cuddled in very close behind me. Stirring slightly, I’m reminded that that my cock is encased in the sheer silky material of some rather retro, high-cut, red nylon, lace-trimmed panties that DW has selected that I should […]

… a particular brand and type of panties, or their near equivalent. A reader has requested that I publish photos of some panties that have served well as part of his domestic discipline regime over the years, but have now reached the point of needing replacement with a brand spanking new pair (sorry – couldn’t […]