Disciplining Ford


“If you want to be really good at something you need to make it a priority and work at it. You need to practise. This is true in sports, in music, in any craft or area of knowledge you wish to master.” Seemingly sound advice that DW is now applying seriously to the further development of her skills in application of the cane to my backside.

DW’s renewed enthusiasm for this implement appears to have arisen primarily as a consequence of the delays to my most recently scheduled punishment. Although a suitably private opportunity to administer this particular spanking did occur at the expected time, as it turned out, DW had by then succumbed to a rather heavy cold that necessitated its postponement… and hence a considerable extension of the time that I was required to spend “on notice”. Although DW was not well enough to perform the spanking I so clearly deserved, this didn’t prevent her from ensuring my heightened anticipation of the event by dictating that I spend the remainder of my time “on notice” 24×7 in white, day of the week panties.

Under the terms of our Disciplinary Agreement, the intent of this measure is to provide me with an incentive for submission to a scheduled punishment as soon as practicable, remembering also that lovemaking can only be at DW’s initiative during a period of notice. As no suitably private opportunity for use of the hairbrush or paddle appeared likely for some time after the postponement, DW resolved that it was time to further develop her competency in the use of a much quieter implement – enter the cane. We currently possess two relatively light canes, one being straight with a woven leather grip, the other being very slightly heavier with a traditional crooked handle. To date, DW has shown a marked preference for the former.

As you may have read in some of my previous posts, DW has often employed the cane to quite good effect as an adjunct to a spanking, but the real and lasting after-effects have been more a consequence of her skill and persistence in use of the hairbrush and Spencer Paddle. It seems the time has now arrived for a caning alone to meet DW’s Measures of Effectiveness in a way that demands less effort, less privacy and hence less delay between my infringements and punishments.

Our previous research of the web has identified two particular articles on the subject that have helpful to us – one is still to be found on Aunt Kay’s DWC site, whilst retaining a link to the other has been more elusive. At the time of writing, it can be found here (unfortunately without the diagram on another site that has only recently shut down). On the basis of this information, DW appears to have set the goal of achieving a nicely parallel set of individually identifiable tramline bruises from top to bottom of my backside that last for up to a week. Consistent with the advice in the articles above, her initial focus has been on accuracy, but I can also vouch for a progressive improvement in the power of her strokes.

So once DW’s cold had sufficiently improved, over the week that followed I was to be found with panties lowered and providing DW with the opportunity for some practice with a live target. After some experimentation, it’s become apparent that my positioning over the back of a chair facing away from the bed will provide DW with a totally uninhibited swinging space. After some 4 “practice” sessions, DW was finally content to release me from panties.

July 31st, 2006 Posted by | Uncategorized | 6 comments


  1. Four practice sessions in one week. Imagine what will follow whenever necessary.
    We have found the cane to be an excellent QUIET method to administer discipline when needed, with people in the house. Thus, the cane should be in every woman’s inventory of implements.

    Comment by dwcmike | August 7, 2006

  2. wow, just found your blog and love it. please keep us posted on your progress.

    Comment by helpmate hubby | August 16, 2006

  3. Hi Croma,
    Hope you don’t mind, but I’ve copied your comment from my earlier “Measures of Effectiveness” post to here as it seemed relevant to this particular post:

    “croma said…

    Hallo Ford,

    Congratulation! Your bottom is very well striped I’m envious of you.
    You are right practice makes perfect. I think the stinging blow of cane is most sore because the rattan is incomparable with the paddle. The “six of the best” is a very sore punishment, in Singapore the peak is 24 but there are an extraordinary case usual “portion” is 10-15 only. Between the riding crop and the cane are the pain of blow unessential.”

    Good to hear from you once again.
    best regards

    Comment by Ford | August 17, 2006

  4. Hi Ford,
    Just found your blog and I love it. My wife also punishes me in other ways, besides spanking. I saw on one of your posts that you get corner time too. I also get
    “lines” and have found a great site that makes it impossible to cheat and your wife dosen’t need to be present to oversee you. The site is FOW, which stands for
    “Fond of Writing.” If you look it up it will be self-explanitory. My wife loves it as she can make up assignments in advance and then assign them to me when she see fit.
    Good luck and keep the posts coming.

    Comment by Anonymous | August 25, 2006

  5. What an exquisitely tedious addition to a corner time punishment. DW does frequent (and proof read) my blog, so I don’t know yet if she plans to implement your suggestion for the use of this particular tool – if so, I can imagine DW keeping me in panties until my lines have been fully completed.
    Given the potential consequences, I’m not yet sure whether I should actually draw it to her attention.
    All the best

    Comment by Ford | September 11, 2006

  6. Hi Ford
    I found your blog via the DWC website. Your DW is virtually a perfect copy of what I wish my wife was. If that was so, I am sure we would be having a very happy, passionate life together instead of being separated after 28 years of marriage. I would like to correspond with you a bit about how you got started, wearing (and buying) panties, etc. I live in the state of Washington in the NW USA and subscribe to the Australian spanking magazine Paddles. In some ways there appears to be a different slant on spanking down your way, at least in magazines.
    Feel free to post anything I say on your blog.
    I’m new at this so I’m not putting my email address here in case it would automatically show up in a comment. How do I pass that to


    Comment by Carl | December 9, 2006

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