Comments for Disciplining Ford http://discipliningford.com/blog Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:50:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 Comment on “Negotiation” by William http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10477 William Wed, 19 Nov 2008 03:39:51 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10477 <p>Caning, I think.</p> Caning, I think.

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by William http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10454 William Tue, 18 Nov 2008 04:36:04 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10454 Would love to see the marks a good caning leaves, thanks again for your responce DW. Would love to see the marks a good caning leaves, thanks again for your responce DW.

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by DW http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10430 DW Mon, 17 Nov 2008 11:01:09 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10430 William - interesting that you should mention these possibilities. Just the other night I mused to Ford while he was removing his belt about the impact it could make on his backside. I'm now also the proud owner of a set of canes in various thicknesses - imported after carefully studying the relevant quarantine laws. Hmm... DW William - interesting that you should mention these possibilities.
Just the other night I mused to Ford while he was removing his belt about the impact it could make on his backside.
I’m now also the proud owner of a set of canes in various thicknesses - imported after carefully studying the relevant quarantine laws.
Hmm…
DW

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by DW http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10429 DW Mon, 17 Nov 2008 10:41:54 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10429 Hi misster, Your point is well made and appreciated. If and when I choose to extend Ford's discipline to other items feminine underwear, he can be assured that it will be: - because he has absolutely deserved it; and - kept strictly a private matter between the two of us, perhaps during a dedicated disciplinary weekend away. Our Disciplinary Agreement is very clear on this point: "Ford and DW agree that the effectiveness of scheduled discipline should be enhanced as an integral part of this regime by the application of additional sanctions at DW’s sole discretion, both before and after the actual administration of the discipline itself. Like the Discipline, such additional sanctions are to be kept private between Ford and DW." Be well also. DW Hi misster,
Your point is well made and appreciated. If and when I choose to extend Ford’s discipline to other items feminine underwear, he can be assured that it will be:
- because he has absolutely deserved it; and
- kept strictly a private matter between the two of us, perhaps during a dedicated disciplinary weekend away.

Our Disciplinary Agreement is very clear on this point:
“Ford and DW agree that the effectiveness of scheduled discipline should be enhanced as an integral part of this regime by the application of additional sanctions at DW’s sole discretion, both before and after the actual administration of the discipline itself. Like the Discipline, such additional sanctions are to be kept private between Ford and DW.”

Be well also.
DW

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by William http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10385 William Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:12:47 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10385 DW, what do you think about giving Ford a good switching or a strapping, would love to see that, take care, William. DW, what do you think about giving Ford a good switching or a strapping, would love to see that, take care, William.

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by samsub http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10372 samsub Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:01:49 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10372 do you buy all of your panties online? or does DW take you shopping for panties? my wife likes to do this, which can be just as embarassing as wearing panties and getting spanked, if not more so. we have also bought nightwear as well do you buy all of your panties online?
or does DW take you shopping for panties?
my wife likes to do this, which can be just as embarassing as wearing panties and getting spanked, if not more so.
we have also bought nightwear as well

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by misster http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10326 misster Thu, 13 Nov 2008 12:57:42 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10326 DW---Ford has written frequently about your use of panty punishment as a part of your disciplinary regimen. I gather that you often use them to put him "on notice" that an infraction has not gone unnoticed, but will be dealt with at a later date. I also gather that you employ panties to "enhance" the disciplinary effect of a spanking or corner time. And, of course, as Ford notes in his "Underwear and Attitude" post, there is his fear of detection and humiliation should someone notice the telltale VPL of his high cut panties or if a lacy waistband peeks above his belt line---the fear itself is "painful", and a reminder of what awaits him, whether he's outed or not. But now you have raised the possibility of adding brassieres, corsets, suspenders and stockings to your disciplinary arsenal! Certainly a good idea---should we call this "lingerie punishment"? However I would humbly offer a gentle reminder that it is nearly impossible for a man to navigate a typical day and avoid detection of his bra straps and snaps and his garter tabs. Detection is almost certain! I'm sure you have considered this and will act as you see fit, but there isn't any going back once the neighbors, friends and fellow employees see his bra. That "punishment" is pretty much forever. As I said, just a friendly reminder. Be well, both of you. DW—Ford has written frequently about your use of panty punishment as a part of your disciplinary regimen. I gather that you often use them to put him “on notice” that an infraction has not gone unnoticed, but will be dealt with at a later date. I also gather that you employ panties to “enhance” the disciplinary effect of a spanking or corner time. And, of course, as Ford notes in his “Underwear and Attitude” post, there is his fear of detection and humiliation should someone notice the telltale VPL of his high cut panties or if a lacy waistband peeks above his belt line—the fear itself is “painful”, and a reminder of what awaits him, whether he’s outed or not.

But now you have raised the possibility of adding brassieres, corsets, suspenders and stockings to your disciplinary arsenal! Certainly a good idea—should we call this “lingerie punishment”? However I would humbly offer a gentle reminder that it is nearly impossible for a man to navigate a typical day and avoid detection of his bra straps and snaps and his garter tabs. Detection is almost certain! I’m sure you have considered this and will act as you see fit, but there isn’t any going back once the neighbors, friends and fellow employees see his bra. That “punishment” is pretty much forever.

As I said, just a friendly reminder. Be well, both of you.

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by William http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10155 William Tue, 04 Nov 2008 15:06:30 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10155 <p><p>Corset with Suspenders and stockings, wonderful, go for it DW, the bad little boy needs a firm woman like you.</p></p> <p>Corset with Suspenders and stockings, wonderful, go for it DW, the bad little boy needs a firm woman like you.</p>

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by William http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10153 William Tue, 04 Nov 2008 12:54:24 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10153 DW, you are the best. DW, you are the best.

]]> Comment on “Negotiation” by Ford http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10152 Ford Tue, 04 Nov 2008 11:13:45 +0000 http://discipliningford.com/blog/2008/10/31/negotiation/#comment-10152 Hi Bill, A couple of my previous posts may possibly be of some assistance - of course everyone's relationship is different: http://discipliningford.com/blog/2007/04/29/why-spank-the-spouse-you-love-so-much/ http://discipliningford.com/blog/2006/08/31/an-agreeable-relationship/ In our case the communication that came from negotiating a written Disciplinary Agreement has certainly helped. I am indeed fortunate that DW was prepared to take responsibility for my discipline. All the best FORD Hi Bill,

A couple of my previous posts may possibly be of some assistance - of course everyone’s relationship is different:

http://discipliningford.com/blog/2007/04/29/why-spank-the-spouse-you-love-so-much/

http://discipliningford.com/blog/2006/08/31/an-agreeable-relationship/

In our case the communication that came from negotiating a written Disciplinary Agreement has certainly helped. I am indeed fortunate that DW was prepared to take responsibility for my discipline.

All the best
FORD

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